About Oklahoma DeMolay

The Road Begins Here

As young men enter their teen years, many challenges lie on the road ahead. We know because we’ve all been there.

There are the temptations and distractions inside and outside of school. There are the difficulties of growing up, finding your place in the world and remaining true to yourself. This road has potholes, dangerous curves, aggressive drivers and overwhelming interchanges.

Don’t go it alone.

Everyone on this road needs some help, guidance and support from time to time, and that’s what DeMolay is all about – creating a brotherhood of young men to challenge, encourage and support each other along this path. To keep each other headed in the right direction. To pick each other up when we fall. And to develop leadership, confidence and character to foster a better world for all.

Our Mission

DeMolay, the premier international youth leadership organization, strives to shape young men into leaders of character.

The DeMolay Approach

With thousands of members worldwide, our philosophy is simple: give young men the tools to lead and the guidance to succeed, and they will amaze you time and again.

From generating ideas, planning events and coordinating logistics to executing on all of it, each youth-led DeMolay Chapter is responsible for defining their own success. All of this is accomplished under the mentorship of trained Advisors, selected from the local community.

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What Does DeMolay Do?

DeMolay is all about learning life skills, building confidence and cultivating brotherhood between our members. On any given meeting night or event, these are the things you might expect to see:

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Athletic Competitions | Video Game Nights | Volunteer Opportunities | Public Speaking Practice | Team Building | Welcoming & Orienting New Members | Etiquette Class

And much more…

DeMolay’s Seven Core Values

Love for Parents

One of the great lessons of DeMolay is the lesson of filial love. DeMolay members cherish their parents and hold family teachings close to their hearts. Our members strive to repay the love and care of their parents through kindness and civility.


An individual’s religious beliefs are their own. We encourage our members to carry out their teachings while also respecting the views of others, no matter how different they may be from their own.


A DeMolay is kind and courteous toward others, not only in public, but also at home and among friends.


Comradeship binds our members together so they may build a lifelong brotherhood. To be a friend is one of the highest honors, but being a brother involves strong ties of loyalty and trust.


Fidelity means faithful and loyal to all our obligations in life. By being faithful, our members earn the respect and trust of everyone with whom they come in contact.


Cleanness extends beyond physical hygiene. It encompasses being purposeful with our words, careful of our actions, and respectful with our thoughts.


DeMolay encourages each member to be patriotic towards his country and mindful of those who serve to protect it, whether through service or by being an exemplary citizen.

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Oklahoma DeMolay Leadership

Jacob Lyon

State Master Councilor

Chris Eccard

State Deputy Master Councilor

RJ Lyon

State Senior Councilor

Noah Gerow

State Junior Councilor

Jordyn S.

State Sweetheart

Emily D.

Miss Conclave

Roger Lyon

State Dad Advisor

Stephanie Lyon

State Mom Advisor

Brad J. Northcutt

Executive Officer

Testimonials From Kids for Oklahoma DeMolay


Jacob, Member

There’s something for everyone!

Justin, Member

DeMolay is your ticket to fun, friendships, and leadership.

Dillon, Alumni

DeMolay gave me the confidence and skills I needed to succeed.

Join DeMolay

Any young man aged 12-20 is welcome to join DeMolay and discover what a worthwhile blast this organization is.

Find Your Local Chapter

Oklahoma DeMolay has local chapters across the state, from Elgin to Claremore and Norman to Stillwater. Find one near you.

Adult Mentorship

Are you an adult eager to make a difference in the lives of young men as they tackle the challenges of growing up? The road to becoming a trained supporter, mentor and Advisor begins here.